Of course, it doesn’t have to be that exaggerated and I rarely do it in this blatant form.
But I just wanted to demonstrate the principle of how you can use the technique of self-irony to give the chat a surprising and unpredictable twist and thus always make it more entertaining than having standard small talk.
The following is a completely different example of the same principle of self-irony, but in a clearly weakened and not so exaggerated form.
If you pay attention to it, there are always opportunities to “spice up” the conversation in the chat with self-irony and sarcasm and make it entertaining. And with a little practice, it will no longer be difficult for you, but will naturally belong to your writing style.
Of course, as with all of these techniques, it is important not to overdo it. All techniques and stylistic devices shown here are intended to sprinkle them in from time to time to give the chat that certain spice. Of course, you shouldn’t write like this all the time. But that’s clear anyway, isn’t it …
This works particularly well in situations when the women tease and challenge you and write things like “How many women have you already written this text?” or “Is that your standard pick-up line?” Etc.
This type of writing also works well when women have concerns about meeting. And then maybe say something like, “How do I know you’re not a serial killer?” etc. In these situations it is often sufficient to loosen up the situation with a little dry humor and exaggeration.
And there is nothing more boring than simply answering these questions factually and truthfully.
Instead, such boring questions are a great way to make the conversation entertaining and exciting by answering such questions in an extremely surprising and unexpected way.
“Oh just the usual … taking photos, traveling back in time, spreading awesomeness, oral orgasms, Disney films. (In no particular order)”Of course, you don’t have to adopt the wording like that. It’s just my way of writing, my humor and also my way of filtering (the sexual innuendos).
But in general, that can serve as inspiration for you and you can think of some funny and unusual formulations for such standard questions that suit you and your life.
Answering these boring questions like this is a great way to keep the chat entertaining, not to drift into small talk, to surprise and laugh, etc.
And at the same time, of course, there are often more interesting conversations afterwards than if you had simply answered objectively and logically.